Monday, December 3, 2012

Making Christmas about Jesus and not just Santa and Elves...

A couple of years ago we got an Elf on the Shelf as a gift. I thought it was a really cute idea so we put him around the house during the month of December the past couple of years. This year I wasn't sure if I wanted to use him (Buddy is his name) or not. I didn't want to send my kids the wrong message. The Elf comes to make sure the kids are being good so that Santa can bring them gifts for Christmas. This can be an easy way to get your kids to behave for a month. They disobey and you slowly look over to the Elf and say..."Buddy is watching. You better be good." As tempting as that is it is just not what Christmas and the Gospel are all about. So, after some prayer and consideration I thought I would try and use the Elf differently this year. There have been a few good pins on pintrest of some others doing this as well! As soon as I saw a pin about their Elf coming with a letter I knew what I wanted to do. The Elf has come, not to make sure my kids are "good" so that they get presents, but to celebrate the greatest gift that we got on Christmas Day and the greatest gift we have ever and will ever receive (Ephesians 2:8-10). Here is the letter that came with Buddy this year...
Each day that Buddy comes he has a special note about Jesus. I am using Advent Calendar that my kids school sent home with them that you can also find here.

My hope is that my children come to understand why we celebrate Christmas and enjoy celebrating Jesus. My hope is that Jesus is the treasure in our family. I'm not going to lie, that can be difficult in America. We have so much and everyone around us has even more (or at least that's what we think). We are surrounded by stuff that means to distract us from Jesus and that makes us want to fix our eyes on things that are temporary and unfortunately come Christmastime it is battle between celebrating Jesus and celebrating the things we get.

As we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are temporary, but the things that are unseen are eternal. 2 Corinthians 4:18

Santa and the Elf are not real, but we have fun pretending. Jesus is our true treasure.

Thursday, November 15, 2012

Early Merry Christmas from the Huffs!

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Tuesday, March 20, 2012

Half Help...

Right before the finish line! Gross!
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So, I did it. I ran a half marathon. It was one of the hardest things I have ever done both mentally and physically. The great thing about pushing ourselves to do something just beyond what we are naturally inclined to do is that we must seek to find strength from another source and when that source is the Lord, you have never felt so alive and close to God.

It is good to put ourselves in situations that create a need for God. So often we believe we can do things in our own strength and often times we do. When we accomplish goals by our own merit we may get  a good result but we miss out on so much the Lord wants to show us and do through us on the journey. God longs to be a part of every part of our life. Every step.

 If you can imagine for a moment the love you have for your children (or that you will have) and how you would want to help them accomplish ANY good thing they attempt to do. That is a great love we are capable of and we are only human and we are limited in what we can do, even for our children. We have a heavenly Father who is unlimited and he has called us children. Nothing is impossible with God! This goes far beyond running, people! In the words of C.S. Lewis, we are far too easily pleased. Get your hands out of the mud and start living a life that is FULL. The best life you could ever want to live is available to you. Don't miss it. I don't want to miss it. It is found in Jesus. Do not be deceived. It is found in Jesus. Is he your treasure?

How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!  1 John 3:1

Friday, January 13, 2012

Shepherding a Child's Heart Ch. 12


The last few chapters in the book we looked at methods of communication and the rod. This chapter is titled Embracing Biblical Methods: Appeal to the Conscience.  If we simply tell our children that they did something wrong and punish them with a spanking we have missed out on a great opportunity to help our children learn how to reason. God has given us all, including children, the capability to reason or determine what is right and wrong.  In the last chapter we looked at scripture that supports the use of the rod, but we do not want to miss out of what the other parts of the verses in Proverbs 23 are saying: 

                “Don’t let your heart envy sinners…” vs. 17
                “…keep your heart on the right path…” vs. 19
                “Listen to your father, who gave you life…” vs. 22
                “Buy the truth and do not sell it; get wisdom, discipline, and                        understanding” vs. 23
                “My son, give me your heart…” vs. 26

Giving a spanking is a good way to get a child’s attention and may help them remember to avoid that same offence in the future but it is the molding of the conscience that address the issues of the heart  and fills the heart with God’s truth.  We should be careful to fill our children’s heart with Gods truth and not lies that stem from wounds of our own, or anger and frustration.  It is about dealing with the root of the problem and not just the surface issue.  We know that God is the ultimate judge of our hearts, but God has placed us in a position to judge our children correctly and on His behalf. Our children don’t know God yet.  What a responsibility. God help us! 

“You address the heart by exposing sin and appealing to the conscience as the God-given right and wrong. “ (Tripp 118)

In the book Tripp gives an example of a boy who took money from the offering plate and his father caught him. The boy’s father took him to Tripp’s office and made him give him the money back. He gave the $2 back.  Basically Tripp presents the gospel to the young boy and express his thanks to God that he was caught in sin and able to deal with the boys actions and not live in sin. The boy then began to cry and handed them a $20. Tripp was able to appeal to the boy’s heart through the gospel. So, it became a time of dealing with the issue of his heart instead of just going through the motions!

Being the children’s director at our church God has allowed me to talk to kids in an effort to change their behaviors/attitude of their heart in class. I recently had a parent say, “I don’t know what you said to him, but there is a night and day difference”.  I told her that it was all God because all I did was tell the boy how much God loved him and that God has a plan for his life and how his behavior did not line up with that AND man have I been praying for him!  God does amazing things when we let HIM, right? 

The gospel and scripture speak to our hearts. It is living and active. Use it! 

Redemption is an important part in correcting, just as it is in the gospel. If we focus on the cross in discipline, then when we correct we are revealing our need for Jesus, because we are sinners. We cannot have redemption from our sins without Him.  It is an internal transformation. If we simply work on the outward appearance and simply reward good behavior and punish bad behavior we are raising children no different that Pharisees. The life we are called to live we cannot live up to ourselves. We need Jesus. Focus your discipline on Christ. 

a rare moment captured. thanks katie snyder

Tuesday, November 22, 2011

The Merrions

I make a calendar for my parents every year with pics of the family and the many grandkids. Rebecca and Paul needed some pics of their sweet little boy Peter. I had fun taking them! I love this family!
When Peter was born he had to have major surgery and he has been doing well ever since (as you can tell). God is good to us and children are such a blessing.
My sister and her son...


Wednesday, November 16, 2011

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Tuesday, September 13, 2011

awkward model...

So I have been having fun cutting up old t-shrits to make budget jewelry. This is my latest creation inspired by this (well kinda copied but I don't say copied because mine is way worse and whoever made this one would be insulted). As you can see, I felt like my last modeling of the t-shirt necklace was too serious and seriously people I can't handle it. This is what I really look like most of the time. Never do I actually glace ever so gracefully to the side for a photo.